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A lone androgynous figure sits from behind on dark coastal rocks at dusk, facing an empty sea as if singing out over the water

Five Nights In Đà Nẵng The one who sang into the ocean

A Tinder match in Đà Nẵng became five unplanned nights - a hot, melancholic story about desire, connection, and wanting different lives.
Two simplified figures lie close on a bed in a dark hotel room at night, each holding a softly glowing phone, with a small gap of duvet between them, in a flat ligne-claire style

A Sailor's Yarn Fourteen years of almost

A fourteen-year crush across Frankfurt, Munich and Bangkok that never quite landed - a queer love story told as a sailor's yarn, true where it counts.

The frontier-vs-everyone-else gap is real – but “8-30b level” sells the floor short. Most people’s AI is Gemini 3.5 Flash, the default behind Google’s AI answers (2.5B+ users a month), or a free-tier GPT mini. Distilled last-gen flagships, a year behind and fast, not toy models.

And the wall’s lower than it was: GPT-5.6 went broadly public yesterday, Fable 5‘s back on paid plans. Except “public” skips free ChatGPT entirely – the elite part is who pays 50 USD a million tokens, not who’s let in.

Push back on myself: nobody’s baffled. 2.5 billion people use this daily – they just see something useful-but-mid, priced like a frontier they’ll never open. And the spend is real. Google alone: ~180 billion USD this year, up from 31 billion in 2022. Hundreds of billions isn’t hyperbole, it’s the floor.

A three-storey red-painted adult shop in Sài Gòn at dusk, its facade covered in neon signage and a rainbow banner, seen from across a busy street with tangled power lines overhead

Desire, Legally Speaking Sex is everywhere in Sài Gòn, and officially nowhere

Sex toys sit legal but invisible in Vietnam and loud but dying in Germany - how two countries regulate the same desire in opposite directions.
The neutral pronoun Vietnamese never had (so the community grew one)

The Language Of Neither The neutral pronoun Vietnamese never had (so the community grew one)

Vietnamese forces a gender into every sentence - so how do non-binary and trans people get addressed? A look at the grammar, the slang, and the gaps.
A rendering of Lara Croft running away from a T-Rex toward the camera, pistols in hand.

Thirty Years Late I finally raided the first tomb – and I did it ugly on purpose

Tomb Raider 1 turns 30 - a personal review of finally finishing the original in its rough classic mode, where mechanics and atmosphere beat graphics.
A golden, craggy apple rice casserole baked in a black rectangular pan on a sunlit wooden table, yellow branches and pink petals nearby, drawn in a Mœbius-style ligne claire illustration

Mom's Reisauflauf, Remixed The rice casserole my sister kept stealing from the fridge

Reisauflauf, remixed lighter and fluffier - a baked rice casserole with apples that even the pickiest eaters keep sneaking cold from the fridge.
A childhood at the end of the water

Where the Roads Don't Reach A childhood at the end of the water

Cà Mau childhood by lamplight - a wooden house at the roadless edge of the Mekong Delta, where boats wear eyes and the dead wait in the water.
Thôi nôi, and the paint on the wall

A Prophecy In Paint Thôi nôi, and the paint on the wall

Thôi nôi is Vietnam's first-birthday rite - a baby grabs a tray to read her future. One grab in 2000 came true, in paint, on a wall.
He said yes, and the sky agreed

A Powerful Coincidence He said yes, and the sky agreed

Proposal on a wild Vũng Tàu dune, a yes, two gold rings - and a rainbow cloud with impossible timing. The same-sex marriage quest begins.
Two channels keeping my brain alive while agents do the work

Folk Covers & Lofi Bones Two channels keeping my brain alive while agents do the work

Folk-instrument game OST covers from Dryante and lofi reinterpretations from bits & hits - the background music keeping my coding sessions alive.